tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13962947368066684222024-03-06T00:41:21.986-08:00clutteredmindlalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-66751195321666181952008-05-07T22:17:00.000-07:002008-05-07T22:18:54.083-07:00Extra cash<embed src="http://www.dneero.com/flashviewer/dneerosurvey.swf?s=268&u=4242&p=0&c=1&r=37632&baseurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dneero.com%2F" wmode="transparent" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="425" height="250" name="dneeroflashviewer" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-53026326469622551332008-04-26T02:34:00.001-07:002008-04-26T02:34:41.209-07:00Haircuts<embed src="http://www.dneero.com/flashviewer/dneerosurvey.swf?s=255&u=4242&p=0&c=1&r=36330&baseurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dneero.com%2F" wmode="transparent" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="425" height="250" name="dneeroflashviewer" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-51112514664054642532008-04-23T19:41:00.000-07:002008-04-23T19:42:05.658-07:00Breakup and Learn<embed src="http://www.dneero.com/flashviewer/dneerosurvey.swf?s=250&u=4242&p=0&c=1&r=36025&baseurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dneero.com%2F" wmode="transparent" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="425" height="250" name="dneeroflashviewer" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-89997981020000455232008-04-12T03:00:00.000-07:002008-04-12T03:01:10.463-07:00TV Shows Are Back<embed src="http://www.dneero.com/flashviewer/dneerosurvey.swf?s=243&u=4242&p=0&c=1&r=34650&baseurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dneero.com%2F" wmode="transparent" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="425" height="250" name="dneeroflashviewer" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-57308623546262548442008-04-09T21:54:00.000-07:002008-04-08T21:54:54.984-07:00It's in the cards<embed src="http://www.dneero.com/flashviewer/dneerosurvey.swf?s=237&u=4242&p=0&c=1&r=34296&baseurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dneero.com%2F" wmode="transparent" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="425" height="250" name="dneeroflashviewer" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-70668291035675117422008-04-07T17:21:00.000-07:002008-04-07T17:37:18.581-07:00Short on cash?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgT_-blDsR-tNcuX2ZlVABUnkPOMTWsKDqXZPszmIwSK92mGxv3BSbPvIuE-eNC2B_1f6HnP7lfLWMytMTteutWOOvSr0e9G6Bfpzt8MlCuvSOgFac8WFDycimVRQRgTbvBVIDSTYUXvPU9/s1600-h/money.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5186666971900627890" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 132px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 163px" height="135" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgT_-blDsR-tNcuX2ZlVABUnkPOMTWsKDqXZPszmIwSK92mGxv3BSbPvIuE-eNC2B_1f6HnP7lfLWMytMTteutWOOvSr0e9G6Bfpzt8MlCuvSOgFac8WFDycimVRQRgTbvBVIDSTYUXvPU9/s320/money.jpg" width="132" border="0" /></a> <div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:verdana;">While working on one of the most prestigious companies in your place, there are some instances that you might experience trouble with salary delays. This can be nauseating especially if you are running out of cash or during emergency conditions. For situations like this, the first thing that comes in your mind is to find someone that can lend you cash. But do you know that getting a loan is much easier with such? Yes, there is an easy way of lending cash. <a href="http://www.easyonlinepaydayloan.com/">Payday loans</a> that are available in the Internet can provide a great help! It is less hassle, dependable, and much faster. It can as well help you save more time and effort. You will not have to visit their place to submit some papers. </span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Once you are qualified, you will be asked to fill up the form from the online system. If all the requirements are completed, you can be certain to get the cash you need in your personal account. Just imagine how less hassle it is. This is just perfect for busy people like me. So, if you are short on cash, stop your worries! A number of online financing agencies are waiting to help.</span> </div></div>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-35693326034293958612008-04-07T00:03:00.001-07:002008-04-12T03:02:40.132-07:00Treat yourself with exotic fruits this summer<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcdrmJq1Y53JGtnwgjGui8xWIQARDlnzna2CuaXT3xw_uXIegG_Ws5raDBqCXVH_qFTvv_DLPZ3t0I5-6wRIa0xTIgPpC-L88yqFmr515FIfgOKpsQgZsKaGIG0U9bacMLUvJ2ZnrMA2OC/s1600-h/exotic+fruits.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5186415767853419410" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcdrmJq1Y53JGtnwgjGui8xWIQARDlnzna2CuaXT3xw_uXIegG_Ws5raDBqCXVH_qFTvv_DLPZ3t0I5-6wRIa0xTIgPpC-L88yqFmr515FIfgOKpsQgZsKaGIG0U9bacMLUvJ2ZnrMA2OC/s320/exotic+fruits.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="justify">During summer, the heat under the spell of the sun allows our body to lose certain amount of water and because of that, it is just important to replenish the ion and the water that is lost from our body through perspiration. However, most of our favorite fruits are hard to find during this time of the year. Hence, exotic fruits are the best choice since these are likely to see in stores. These choices include:</div><br /><div align="justify">1. Buddha’s hand (fingered citron). This is native to the Mediterranean area. There is freshness with its citrus fragrance. You can use it raw to flavor the rice, candied in baked goods, and in jams, jellies, and confections. It can also be used as a room freshener. </div><div align="justify"><br />2. Cherimoya, a native to South America. Peel its skin, remove the seeds, and you can have the sweet, juicy pulp with a custard like consistency. The flavor has a hints of mango, pineapple, papaya, and vanilla custard. Spoon the fruit out or use it in salads, sorbets, pastry, and jams.</div><div align="justify"><br />3. Litchi. Native to Southern China. Under an easy-to-peel shell, the fruit surrounds an inedible stone. It’s very juicy, fragrant, and sweet, and tastes like a combo of strawberry, rose, and Muscat grape. Eat it raw and fast, because it will ferment. Choose fruit with a blush and no crack. You can also found this fruit in canned in syrup, dried, or candied.</div><div align="justify"><br />4. Persimmon. The national fruit of Japan. It’s tender, sweet, and fragrant, with hints of plum honey, and pumpkin. Eat it raw, when soft. Start fruit (carambola). Native of Asia. The skin is edible; the flesh is juicy, and slightly acidic. You can eat it raw or cooked in fruit or vegetable dishes. It is best when purchased ripe. Look for golden, firm, aromatic fruit.</div>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-5774918887370540872008-04-05T03:14:00.000-07:002008-04-05T03:18:23.137-07:00Friend, here we come!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj36YWdPr5r37uQX_vnqQNJ3Hr6PXjGDbxq-1o5adLvcOea6dt8J2GZAdkJjkRVpcqlcHye8dW1dZV0XYHubaTFVE3dUVsIcl5MXzHcyA35us7s1z8IGq8cM1C40dx6ZtkUr7Hptwh5FsX1/s1600-h/Tour_33_49.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj36YWdPr5r37uQX_vnqQNJ3Hr6PXjGDbxq-1o5adLvcOea6dt8J2GZAdkJjkRVpcqlcHye8dW1dZV0XYHubaTFVE3dUVsIcl5MXzHcyA35us7s1z8IGq8cM1C40dx6ZtkUr7Hptwh5FsX1/s320/Tour_33_49.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5185703172649470850" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">I met few of my old friends in college earlier this morning and decided to visit one of our friends out of town by next weekend. 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This is not a problem! Online </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.culinary-school-finder.com/"> culinary schools</a></span><span class="fontheadline"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.culinary-school-finder.com/"> </a> </span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">can help. This culinary school finder has helped me with this situation. Just like me, you can as well learn the techniques and etiquette in cooking. </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.culinary-school-finder.com/"> Chef school</a></span><span class="fontheadline"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.culinary-school-finder.com/"> </a> </span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">has taught me cook different recipes from different nations. So for busy moms out there, attending the </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.culinary-school-finder.com/"> culinary school</a></span><span class="fontheadline"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.culinary-school-finder.com/"> </a> </span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">is a great help! <o:p></o:p></span></div>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-79534654423468790672008-04-03T08:59:00.000-07:002008-04-02T21:04:14.779-07:00Smart way of getting your dream car<div align="justify">Most of us would think that purchasing a new car is difficult. Just the idea of getting your expensive and luxurious dream car is tough especially if you only have limited budget. So instead of getting your dream car, you end up getting one that you never imagine to drive. This could happen but of course, you can always have your dream car. All you just have to do is find a financing agency that will help you own a car. Pre approved auto loans are smart way of purchasing a car. Car loans are perfect for those with tight budget. Repayment period policy is simple and takes certain period, depending on your application.<br /><br />With the numbers of financing agencies, certainly it is not hard for you to find one that will meet your expectations. Of course, you also need to know more about their offers, and the rate of interest should be reasonable enough to match your monthly amortizations. Make sure that they can as well provide you flexible provisions.<br /><br />To help you find different cheap and affordable interest rates and loan quotes, the internet can help. Online <a href="http://www.getthebestautoloan.com/"> car loans </a> can certainly help you get your dream car while saving more time and effort. </div>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-20615314180363808642008-04-03T05:27:00.000-07:002008-04-02T20:59:41.261-07:00Spring awakening<embed src="http://www.dneero.com/flashviewer/dneerosurvey.swf?s=231&u=4242&p=0&c=1&r=33524&baseurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dneero.com%2F" wmode="transparent" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="425" height="250" name="dneeroflashviewer" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-61624454022715619862008-04-02T03:07:00.000-07:002008-04-02T03:08:53.285-07:00Why not to worry when running out of cash<div align="justify">My friend called me yesterday telling that her mother was in the hospital because of heart failure. It was a serious case that she even asked me to lend her certain amount of money. Her mom is so dear to me. In fact, I treat her as my second mom. And it felt really bad not to help her just because I run out of cash. I am just glad that my officemate told me about this <a href="http://www.personalcashadvance.com/"> payday loans</a>.<br /><br />Yes, there is an easy way of getting instant cash! The online payday loan had helped me a lot. Before, I used to have a loan that kept me waiting for a month or two. Now you can have it overnight! It’s so easy! All you have to do is answer all the questions on the form. Once their online system has received the complete details, a representative will call you informing the requirements needed. This means that those who need loans will no longer have to worry in visiting their office just to submit the requirements on time. It’s really a great help for us guys especially during times of emergency and with our busy sked. Wow! 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display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFWGYd-FYKFqaE32tpDJMsFjthnzSiOqSMtQtQyHhj947xa0rCSB6JCnQ4SFfKmKxtbNmSlRyTCg_QZBmMMEcfvGpYCTl3xQoq3cSB7xZrTzTGxaLwP4Ssl1tbpI42AOCTgEKjiRyjDNAV/s320/friendship+tag3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5176688256484681202" border="0" /></a><br />i pass this award to <a href="http://breakingdasilenz.blogspot.com/"> </a><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://breakingdasilenz.blogspot.com/"> </a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://breakingdasilenz.blogspot.com/"> </a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="fontheadline"><b style=""><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:11;" ><a href="http://breakingdasilenz.blogspot.com/">Shammy</a>, <a href="http://theoverflowedthoughts.blogspot.com/">Yhenny</a>, <a href="http://fradjayl.blogspot.com/">Tala</a>, <a href="http://jaggedcore.blogspot.com/">Halley</a>, <a href="http://imcolourblind.blogspot.com/">Precy</a><o:p></o:p></span></b></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontheadline"><b style=""><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:11;" ><a href="http://jaggedcore.blogspot.com/"></a><o:p></o:p></span></b></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontheadline"><b style=""><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:11;" > <o:p></o:p></span></b></span></p><br /><img src="file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/leon/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot.jpg" alt="" /><img src="file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/leon/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot-1.jpg" alt="" />lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-34450645319685547962008-03-01T19:16:00.000-08:002008-03-11T19:53:07.050-07:00Ten tips to overcome communication conflict in a relationship<ul><li><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Learn to express your feelings your feelings and frustrations honestly, but without accusing or attacking the other person.</span></li></ul><ul><li><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Choose words, expression, and a tone of voice that are kind and gentle. Do not use speech that could easily offend or spark an argument.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Do not exaggerate, distort, or stretch the truth. Avoid extreme words like <i style="">never </i>and <i style="">always</i>.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Give actual and specific examples. If necessary, make notes before you communicate. Stay away from generalities.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Commit yourself to seeking solutions instead of airing your grievances. Getting even is not the goal – you want to get things resolved.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Listen to what the other person is saying, feeling, and needing. Try to detect his or her underlying concerns.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Refuse to indulge bitterness, anger, withdrawal, or argument. Though these emotions are normal, indulging them is sin.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Do not hesitate to acknowledge your own failure, and be quick to forgive the other person. Make sure you do not hold a grudge.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Keep talking and asking questions until you are sure that you both understand clearly with the other saying and feeling. Encourage each other as you press toward a solution.</span></li></ul><ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 1pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Train your mouth and heart until you can say the right thing at the right time and the right way for the right reasons. <o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 1pt 0in 0.0001pt 45pt; text-indent: -0.5in;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-82859627670605969672008-02-29T16:22:00.000-08:002008-03-04T23:08:38.810-08:0063 Questions1. Song that always makes you sad? …Someday<br />2. Last thing you bought? …scarf and belt<br />3. Last person you argued with? …mom<br />4. Do you put Butter before putting the jelly on? …nah<br />5. One of your stuffed animals' names as a kid? …’twas a friend’s gift. I called him Rusty.<br />6. Did you ever own at one time a Nysnc Cd? …nevah! hehehhe<br />7. Favorite day of the week? …Sunday<br />8. Favorite Sundae topping?: …chocolate syrup and peanut crunch<br />9. Did you take Piano lessons? …nah<br />10. Most frequent song played? …love songs and R&B<br />11. T.V. show you secretly enjoy? soap operas..hehehe<br />12. Would you rather play basketball or hockey? …hockey<br />13. Date someone older or younger? …yep!<br />14. One place you would wish to travel right now? …Paris<br />15. Do you use umbrellas? …yep!<br />16. Do you know all the words to the Canadian national anthem? …none in particular<br />17. Favorite Cheese? ...all<br />18. Disturbed or My Chemical Romance? …both<br />19. Do you prefer Blondes or Brunettes? …brunettes<br />20. Best job you ever had? …engineer<br />21. did you go to your high school prom? …won’t dare to miss one!<br />22. perfect time to wake up? …6 am<br />23. perfect time to go to bed? …midnight<br />24. do you use your queen right away in chess? …nah<br />25. Ever been in a car accident? …bicycle. heheheh<br />26. closer to mom or dad...or neither? …both<br />27. what age is this exciting life over for you? …teens<br />28. what decade during the 20th century would you have chosen to be a teenager? …90's<br />29. Favorite shoes you have EVER owned? …all<br />30. Do you have an article of clothing you have had since you were in high school? …none<br />31. Were you in track and field? …nope<br />32. Were you ever in a school talent show? …nope<br />33. Have you ever written in a library book? …I guess<br />34. Allergic to? …Alaxan pain reliever<br />35. Favorite fruit? …green mango<br />36. Have you watched sex and the city? …yep<br />37. Baseball hat or toque? …baseball<br />38. Do you shampoo first in the shower or soap? …shampoo first<br />39. Wet the toothbrush or brush dry with the toothpaste? …wet the brush first<br />40. Pen or pencil? …pencil<br />41. Have you ever gambled at a casino? …once<br />42. Have you thrown up on a plane? …not yet. hehehe<br />43. Have you thrown up in a car? ...no<br />44. Have you thrown up at work? …no<br />45. Do you scream on roller coasters? …oh yes!<br />46. Who was your first prom date? …never mind<br />47. Who was your first roommate? …my sister<br />48. What alcoholic beverage did you drink when you got drunk for the first time? …vodka<br />49. What was your first job? …engineering assistant<br />50. What was your first car? …Do I have one? hehehe<br />51. When did you go to your first funeral? …dont remember<br />52. How old were you when you first travelled away from your hometown? hmm..12 I guess.<br />53. Who was your first grade teacher? …Ms andes…heheheh<br />54. Where did you go on your first airplane ride? manila<br />55. When you snuck out of your house for the first time, who was it with?: …just me<br />56. Who was your first Best Friend and are you still friends with them? …Ara. Yep, we remain friends.<br />57. Where did you live the first time you moved out of your parent's house? …Cebu<br />58. Who is the first person you call when you have a bad day? …a friend<br />59. Who's wedding were you in the first time you were a bridesmaid or a groomsmen? …can’t remember<br />60. What is the first thing you do in the morning? …eat my breakfast<br />61. What was the first concert you attended? …don’t remember<br />62. First tattoo or piercing? …ear piercing<br />63. First celebrity crush? …Tom Cruise<br /><br />people to tag: Ruthie, Laura, Medhy, Sheen, and Vanslalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-37660007868162470572008-02-25T15:45:00.000-08:002008-02-28T22:25:16.459-08:00Rain, rain go away!<blockquote></blockquote><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">I love it when it starts to rain, especially after the long spell of steamy, hot weather. I just find it irresistible to stare at the grasses that almost instantly turns from a light brown to a soothing pistachio green while the plants would perk up, making the garden a heaven to view. The smell of the rain is delightful and the way it drops off the ground seems like music to my ear.<br /></span></p><span><span style="font-family:Verdana;"> </span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">The rain gives me more time to stay at home enjoy DVD’s and read magazines and books. It also gives me an excuse to curl up in bed a little longer with my soft pillows embracing me. But all these excitements are turning into anxieties because this rain could result to flood. In fact, just few days ago, the entire city o<span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">f </span><st1:place style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" st="on"><st1:city st="on"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"></span></st1:city></st1:place>Legazpi had experienced flooding. And because Bicol <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"></span>region has severe case of flood, it’s really sad that every time the rain pours, fear would draw us in...</span><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"> </span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVwcfQrr5alerJ0iV06xI4UvB5VVACfb0Vbm6-IDP5_tsg-KJMm0FdnD1ChdQxDo2WCyNkzlPNFS5FKhFdjPaxGEPR5x54w0nc0EIO1INOR5dtwdQuh1GOLiFkbtWX7ZOgj37xGnx8FOyy/s1600-h/baha.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVwcfQrr5alerJ0iV06xI4UvB5VVACfb0Vbm6-IDP5_tsg-KJMm0FdnD1ChdQxDo2WCyNkzlPNFS5FKhFdjPaxGEPR5x54w0nc0EIO1INOR5dtwdQuh1GOLiFkbtWX7ZOgj37xGnx8FOyy/s320/baha.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5172276249878302914" border="0" /></a> taken last February 22, 2008</p> <br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-79193569357140887592008-02-24T16:54:00.000-08:002008-04-01T03:19:48.218-07:006 Quirky Things About me<span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">Tagged by </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=1396294736806668422&postID=7919356935714088759"><b><span style="font-family:Verdana;">inmyinnocence.blogspot.com</span></b><span style="font-family:Verdana;">/</span><span class="fontheadline"><b><span style="font-family:Verdana;">">Vans</span></b></span></a><?xml:namespace prefix = o /><o:p></o:p></span> <p><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">The rules: Link to the person that tagged you. Post the rules on your blog. Share six un-important things/habits/quirks about your self. Tag 6 random people at the end of your post by linking to their blogs. Let these random people know that they are tagged by leaving comments in their blog.Let your tagger know when your entry is up.<br /><br />Six Unimportant things/habits/quirks about my self.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">1. I always want my top to match the color of my footwear. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:0;">2.<span style="font-size:0;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">hate mess.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:0;">3.<span style="font-size:0;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">Shower time takes an hour.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:0;">4.<span style="font-size:0;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">I love sleeping.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:0;">5.<span style="font-size:0;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">loves to wear pajamas at home.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:0;">6.<span style="font-size:0;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">Before bed time, I put petroleum jelly on my lips. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">6 people to tag:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p><span style="font-size:85%;"><b><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><a href="http://breakingdasilenz.blogspot.com/">Shammy</a>, <ah ref="http://theoverflowedthoughts.blogspot.com/">Yhenny, <o:p></o:p></ah></span></b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=1396294736806668422&postID=7919356935714088759"><span class="fontheadline"><b><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Laura</span></b></span></a><b>,<o:p></o:p></b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=1396294736806668422&postID=7919356935714088759"> <span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"></span><span class="fontheadline"><b><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Medhy</span></b></span></a><b>,<o:p></o:p></b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=1396294736806668422&postID=7919356935714088759"> <span class="fontheadline"><b><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Ruthie</span></b></span></a><b>,<o:p></o:p></b></span> Tala</p><span style="font-size:85%;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=1396294736806668422&postID=7919356935714088759"><b><span class="fontheadline"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"></span></span></b></a></span><p><b><b><b><span class="fontheadline"><b><b><span class="fontheadline"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:11;"><span class="fontheadline"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:11;"><br /><o:p></o:p></span></b></span></span></b></span></b></b></span></b></b></b></p><b><b><b><b><b><b></b></b></b></b></b></b>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-24774325741146311982008-02-19T14:05:00.000-08:002008-02-28T22:23:49.341-08:00His love...<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">It was then when I saw him, in the middle of the dance floor. I could never forget those eyes, those beautiful and soulful eyes, making me weak inside. I would give anything for a kiss, just one kiss and I know in my heart everything will be alright. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">He was just so perfect, dancing. Then I saw her. He was just staring at her, so oblivious to their surroundings. They look good together. And then I realized my tears were falling down my cheeks. I am crying. I am actually crying because the man of my dreams is dancing with the woman of his dreams. It hurt so bad that I could cry all night but couldn’t blame him, for he doesn’t know me. He doesn’t even know I exist. I love him from a distance because he doesn’t know me. He just doesn’t. <o:p></o:p></span></p>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-12868368628455347332008-02-16T21:33:00.000-08:002008-02-28T22:22:39.084-08:00Untitled<p class="MsoNormal"><i style=""><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Love has its own wings to set free, so it will always find the right place where it should be.</span> <o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">To let go is really hard, so I’m leaving you with these lines… I was suppose to write you a letter then but just couldn’t find the right words to say. Glad I came up with these lines. And since you didn’t get the message, I’m posting it this time. I had it titled, <i style="">Untitled</i>. <o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Untitled</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:11;" >The feelings started for no reasons. I just felt it, and even if I wasn’t sure about how you feel, still, I took the risk. I was thinking that the more love I offer you, the more love there could be on offer. But this didn’t work. Maybe, I was trying really just hard to make you love me. The more I tried working on it, the less likely I have gained from your love. And it just didn’t work. I actually don’t know if you did love me. I hope so… And perhaps, you just simply have fallen out of love. It is really never easy to tell someone that you are no longer in love…so you never did! But if only you just told me that you love her more... If only you have said that you needed her most, perhaps there will be no anger and I guess there’ll be less pain. I was more than willing to see you happy with someone else than be with me for anguish. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:11;" >I know I tried to hurt you… I’m sure you wouldn’t understand why I kept hurting you with those cruel words. I actually never meant to hurt you. But I was hurt, and it takes me a long time to ease the pain. I often cry, hoping that this will try to alleviate the pain. Unfortunately, it does not and will not indeed. The pain that is felt emotionally seems like unbearable. And I know this will take me a long time to trust someone again. But it’s fine; seeing you happy is more important. Certainly, this will help me become a better person. I really wish I could accept it at once… But I just can’t. Apparently, things will exactly be just fine in the end. Soon, I will learn to accept things. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:11;" >Sad love really seizes the pride and the heart to heal much longer. Yet, it is much better to fall in love than to fall out of love. So I’m leaving you with love… Let me treasure the love we had without regrets. You can do your thing now and so will I. And if by chance we found each other again, and there is love. Then it’s beautiful! I just can’t bear the pain right now… and I must go.<o:p></o:p></span></p>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-91112658558397252882008-02-12T22:23:00.001-08:002008-02-28T22:21:48.515-08:00hot chick<p><a href="http://www.magmypic.com/"><img src="http://a.magmypic.com/uploads/d/ed/ded0d246062250c4e9c61da345c2125d_COSMO_sm.jpg" /></a></p><br /><p>after the success on covering the famous vogue magazine, cosmopolitan asked me to pose for theirs... (artistahin talaga!) yes, that's me! so if you want to learn more about how i made my abs this tight, you got to know my secret... read more. check out my cosmo issue! hahahaha<br /><br /><a href="http://www.magmypic.com/subscribe/cosmo"></a><br /></p><br /><br /><a border="0" href="http://www.gigyamailbutton.com/wildfire/gigyamailbutton.ashx?url=aHR*cDovL3d3dy5naWd5YS5jb2*vd2lsZGZpcmUvd2Zwb3AuYXNweD9tb2R1bGU9ZW1haWwmdXJsPWh*dHAlM*ElMkYlMkZ3d3clMkVtYWdteXBpYyUyRWNvbSUyRmdldGNvZGU=" target="_blank"><img src="http://cdn.gigya.com/wildfire/i/includeShareButton.gif" border="0" height="20" width="60" /></a><img style="visibility: hidden; width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="http://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/CIMP/JnB*PTEyMDI4ODQyMzI4MzQmcD*1NDc4MSZkPXBhcnRuZXIrZGF*YSZuPWJsb2dnZXI=.jpg" border="0" height="0" width="0" />lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-33616887917706316742008-02-12T22:15:00.001-08:002008-02-28T22:21:34.352-08:00the cover<p><a href="http://www.magmypic.com/"><img src="http://a.magmypic.com/uploads/0/ad/0adf09ab99fc82a38b70da367b080873_VOGUE_sm.jpg" /></a></p><br />ever experienced being on the magazine cover? i just did! hehehehe<br />a million thanks to my vogue family. (lol) this is it!<br />for your subscription of vogue magazine, simply click on the link (feel na feel) hahahaha!<br /><br /><br /><p> <a href="http://www.magmypic.com/subscribe/vogue">Subscribe to Vogue Magazine</a> at a 63% discount!</p><br /><br /><a border="0" href="http://www.gigyamailbutton.com/wildfire/gigyamailbutton.ashx?url=aHR*cDovL3d3dy5naWd5YS5jb2*vd2lsZGZpcmUvd2Zwb3AuYXNweD9tb2R1bGU9ZW1haWwmdXJsPWh*dHAlM*ElMkYlMkZ3d3clMkVtYWdteXBpYyUyRWNvbSUyRmdldGNvZGU=" target="_blank"><img src="http://cdn.gigya.com/wildfire/i/includeShareButton.gif" border="0" height="20" width="60" /></a><img style="visibility: hidden; width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="http://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/CIMP/JnB*PTEyMDI4ODM3MjE3NTYmcD*1NDc4MSZkPXBhcnRuZXIrZGF*YSZuPWJsb2dnZXI=.jpg" border="0" height="0" width="0" />lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-8149746422225146182008-02-12T18:09:00.000-08:002008-02-28T22:21:13.916-08:00Boy meets girl.<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family:verdana;"><span class="fontheadline">I was surprised when I received a late birthday present from my good friends,<br /><b style=""><span style="font-size:11;"><a href="http://breakingdasilenz.blogspot.com/">Shammy</a> </span></b></span>and <span class="fontheadline"><b style=""><span style="font-size:11;"><a href="http://theoverflowedthoughts.blogspot.com/">Yhenny</a></span></b></span>. I actually hate surprises but this does not stop them from doing so… The gift was wrapped well that it made me eager to open it. To my astonishment, I got this book, “Boy meets girl, say hello to courtship”, written by Joshua Harris. Joshua Harris became famous in his first ever written book, “I kissed dating goodbye”. <o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: verdana;">Analyzing the title of this book, made me realize something... Am I starting to hate men? Not at all! Why would I do that? In fact, I love the company of my boy friends. Then what are they thinking? You want me to consider dating? You know that I’m dating; I am just not ready yet for a commitment. <o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family:verdana;" >Do I still dwell from my past relationship? I don’t know… But he wanted me to wait for him… I guess this is the reason why I can’t see myself with someone else and what happened with us feared me of going through another serious relationship. (Sigh)</span><o:p style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: verdana;"><br /></o:p><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family:verdana;" >But I do appreciate it guys! And it seems that you are right... I really should not dwell on my past… hehehehe Alright, I’ll give it a try then... Maybe reading the lines on each page will make me rethink of romance again. Surely, you’ll be a part of my next romance story. (lol)</span> <o:p></o:p></span></p>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1396294736806668422.post-69143148883951424902008-02-11T00:51:00.000-08:002008-02-28T22:20:30.157-08:00THE RIGHT PERSON<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg29YK-KDpjjBbgQD6pd2flgt1_Xdw54ZJVf57KdX9UIKsEOP1X21HJkhR4d-a5JNghos3px-_ZgZalhDdtJb_C4tbqZZSZUx59tlOY6W5g61AUbG68-TdMW_UEAnWRU7y6TYSmhaZjL9O_/s1600-h/old+couple+in+love.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg29YK-KDpjjBbgQD6pd2flgt1_Xdw54ZJVf57KdX9UIKsEOP1X21HJkhR4d-a5JNghos3px-_ZgZalhDdtJb_C4tbqZZSZUx59tlOY6W5g61AUbG68-TdMW_UEAnWRU7y6TYSmhaZjL9O_/s320/old+couple+in+love.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5166031330707245394" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);font-family:georgia;" >How will someone know if he already found the right person?</span> <p class="MsoNormal" face="georgia" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"><o:p></o:p>Before a relationship ends to a perfect marriage, lots of hardships will be experienced first. These are trials that you and your partner should overcome because a relationship is a cycle. At first, there should be love. A woman that is in love always hope for her beau to call, desires for his touch, and like every idiosyncrasies of the man. All these only mean that falling in love with a man wasn’t that hard, it comes natural and spontaneous. It’s called “falling” in love ‘coz it is happening... </p> <p class="MsoNormal" face="georgia" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"><o:p></o:p>Falling in love is really easy. It can be a passive or impulsive experience. But of course, the ecstasy of love will soon fade while being with this same person you have fallen in love with, be it in a marriage or a long-and-serious relationship. This is natural. Slowly, the phone calls become a bother; the touch is no longer passionate; and the idiosyncrasies of the person you once fell in love with, will drive you nuts. These signs vary in every stage of a relationship. But if the partners consider what they have shared for years, then there is greater difference from the first stage of the relationship and during the dull moments in the subsequent stage. So here comes the famous question, “Did I choose the right person?” </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 255, 204); font-family: georgia;">As both of you reflect on the condition of the love you once had, you may find yourself yearning for such experience with someone else. When the relationship fails, people tend to blame their partner for their misery and just look to the other side of the relationship only for fulfillment. Infidelity becomes so obvious. But there are also some who prefer being involved with other forms of abusive substances like work, hobbies, friendship, and a lot more. The answer to this dilemma actually does not lie outside the relationship, for it lies within it. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 255, 204); font-family: georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">I can’t say that you should not fall for someone else though. Indeed, you can still fall in love with someone. But because this can only make you feel better temporarily, expect that you will also be in the same situation a few years later because </span><b>THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT IS LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU<span style=""> </span>FOUND. </b><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">Sustaining the love is not an inert or spontaneous experience. It will never happen to anyone. Each of us cannot find a LASTING love since every one needs to make it every minute of the day. And that is where the “Labor of Love” begins. It takes time, energy, effort, and WISDOM to make the love lasts. Each is responsible for discerning WHAT TO DO to make the relationship work. You must not do something that will ruin the love, for LOVE IS NOT A MYSTERY. Lots of things can be done with or without your partner just to make this relationship succeed. Same as the physical laws of the universe, a relationship also provides a certain law that will make it stronger. And once this law is applied, its direct cause and effect becomes predictable, from which a LOVE that is built will lasts a life time. So choosing the person you want to spend the rest of your life is your “decision”… not just a feeling. And you must make this decision always right.</span> </p>lalashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12448543646753436362noreply@blogger.com0